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Marital Status

Divorced – grown adult children

Christian Affiliation

Presbyterian Church in America (PCA)




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College /University

Florida International University (1991);

Master’s University (2020)

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Level of education



Full Time


Christian School Teacher



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My ideal place to live

A farm/cottage in the country

My view on smoking

I don't smoke and I don't like to be around smokers

My view on drinking

I rarely drink

On the subject of children

I would like to have children one day

Tell us about your family. How do you feel about relocating?

I raised 3 children on my own since divorced over 15 years ago. If God so pleases to bring a future spouse into my life, I would consider relocating.

How old were you when you were drawn to Christ and how is your Christian walk these days?

During the last year of my marriage, God called me to himself when I was in a lonely place as a wife. Although there were biblcial grounds for my divorce, I would have stayed in my marriage to work through this trial. However, as an unbeliever, his desires were to abolish our marriage.


The Lord has been my strength and my shield through the years as a single parent. I have learned to be joyful in the circumstances of my status and remained faithful to God to raise my children in the Lord. At times I failed, but my motives have always been to honor the Lord above all else. He has taught me how to depend on him and trust him instead of myself. Today, I am learning how to live on my own since my children have all graduated from school and living independent lives. I am waiting to see where I can be of use to God, as he equips me in my ministry of biblcial counseling and teacher. I comit myself to serve him in any capacity he chooses.

How have the Doctrines of Grace changed or affected your life?

These doctrines I hold close to my heart as they are the underlying currents of my life. As I came to truely understand the scope of my depravity (Eph. 2:1, 5), and not being able to offer anything in myself to the Lord, but filthy rags (Rom. 8:29-30), I have become so thankful to my Lord Jesus Christ for his work on Calvary for me–For I no longer live for myself, but belong to Him, for he has atoned for my sins and bought me with his precious blood (1 Cor. 6:19-20).

Do you have a "Quiet Time?" What are you studying?

I value my quiet time as it is hard to find these days. Currrently, I am reading The Tender Heart by Richard Sibbes.

Who is your favorite Biblical Character and why?

Paul because of his courage and example of how to die to self and be joyful in it.

Esther for her bravery, sacrifice, and gentleness throughout her witness for the Lord.

Are you content being single? Why? If not, why?

I am not content being single, especially now since my children are living primarily independently. I long for the companionship that God originally designed.

What are four qualities your friends would attribute to you?

loyal friend

godly sincerity



What are three things you are most thankful for?

My salvation/Christ; children; sisters; inner man growth & change/sanctification

Describe the character and personality traits you enjoy in another person? What are yours?

Humility; tender hearted; confidence; ability to lead; good sense of humor; easy-going



Overcomer; resilent; hard worker; sincere; sense of humor; ability to not sweat the small stuff

Other than your parents, who has been the most influential person in your life and how?

Jesus Christ for choosing to love me & save a wretched sinner as I!


My grandmother, for loving me unconditionally during my teenage years.

What contributed to your previous relationship/marriage ending?

Lack of true love, friendship, companionship, and abandonment of the marriage on his part.

How long have you been on your own since and what did you to do get through it?

Over 15 years now

Favorite lines from movies, poems, songs, hymns or Scripture you would like to tell us about?

Psalm 4; 1 Peter 5:8; 2 Timothy 2:24-26; Philippians 2:3-5; Hebrews 10:29


You Are My Song (Chris & Bethany Solyntjes); Ulysses (Josh Garrells); Take This Life (Shawn McDonald); Amazing Grace; Come Thou Fount of Every Blessing, many others…

What type of work do/did you do?

Teaching students with learning disabilities, primarily dyslexia and dyscalculia

How long have you been/were you in that line of work? Do/you enjoy it?

This is my 21st year teaching. I enjoy working with students who struggle as I get to witness to them during trials, as well as see much growth in their progress!

Do you have any life-long goals? What are they?

To finish my Master’s in Biblical Counseling; to be a godly wife to a godly man; to be more proficient as a guitarist.

Where were you born and where have you traveled?

Costa Mesa, CA


I have traveled to the Virgin Islands, north eastern & southern states, California

About Me

Hello, I came to a saving knowledge of Christ more than 15 years ago when my husband abandoned our marriage. I have learned since to trust in God’s sovereignty with my singleness. However, because he has designed me to be a companion, my desire is to marry again some day if God sees fit to bless me in this way. If not, I will continue to find joy in his will for my life daily. As Proverbs 31:25 reads, ”Strength and dignity are her clothing and she laughs at the time to come.” I can only do this with the strength of Christ & the pouring in of the Holy Spirit! I am thankful for the grace he give me and am fully reliant on his love for me each day.

My Interests

Theology, Biblical Counseling, cooking, exercise,  playing guitar

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