123Cindyleigh
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| Username | 123Cindyleigh |
| Nickname | 123Cindyleigh |
| Gender | Female |
| Country | Unites States |
| State | Illinois |
| City | Naperville |
| Zip | 60563 |
| Looking for | Marriage Minded |
| Marital Status | Divorced – grown adult children |
| Christian Affiliation | Reformed Evangelical |
| Race | Caucasian |
| Height | 5' 4" |
| Build | Curvy |
| Eye Color | Blue |
| Hair Color | Blonde |
| College /University | none |
| Graduation Year | 1976 |
| Level of education | Some College |
| Employment | Full Time |
| Occupation | Customer Service Former Missionary |
| Company | Cambridge Resources |
| Seeking Ethnicity (those I am willing to date) | Any |
| My ideal place to live | A farm/cottage in the country |
| My view on smoking | I don't smoke and I don't like to be around smokers |
| My view on drinking | I drink occasionally |
| On the subject of children | I am an empty nester |
| Tell us about your family. How do you feel about relocating? | I have 4 grown children. I lived as a missionary for nearly 20 years and 3 of 4 children still live abroad. I have no problems relocating. My 1 daughter is still in college and lives in Tennessee. |
| How old were you when you were drawn to Christ and how is your Christian walk these days? | 18 years old. A co-worker shared Christ with me through a tract. I realized that I had made a lot of wrong choices and decisions that were ruining my life. Once I realized that I needed a Saviour and that I couldn’t do it myself. I needed to be rescued from sin. I bowed my heart and knees and trusted Jesus to save me. That was a long time ago and I haven’t looked back since. Has the road been easy and free of suffering no. But I know Jesus better now than I did then and I know Him in a deeper way because of the life I have lived. |
| How have the Doctrines of Grace changed or affected your life? | Changed my life drastically. Once I realized it was by faith alone, in Christ Alone. I did nothing to earn this salvation and I can do nothing to un-earn it. Jesus loves me and when I came face to face with He chose me! I was undone. I know what I was like and know that its all by grace alone. None of my works saved me and believe me I tried. It was so freeing and humbling to see it’s all JESUS and none of me. |
| Do you have a "Quiet Time?" What are you studying? | Yes, by the grace of God I meet with Jesus every day. I am going through Psalms and the Old Testament again and I learn more and more each time through. |
| Who is your favorite Biblical Character and why? | Peter – because I can relate to being impetuous. And love love his relationship with Jesus both before and after the resurrection. Jesus’ power to forgive and restore. AMEN |
| Are you content being single? Why? If not, why? | As much as one can be. I do desire to be married to have that intimacy. But I am also ok not being married. I miss sharing my life with another person. |
| What are four qualities your friends would attribute to you? | Faith-filled, kind, caring and loyal. |
| What are three things you are most thankful for? | other than Jesus, I would have to say my children and grandchildren, my bible as I learn so much about my savior there and I learn everytime I open it and read. Everything – I know we can say that but it’s hard to stop – coffee, sunshine, cool crisp fall nights, etc. |
| Describe the character and personality traits you enjoy in another person? What are yours? | Kindness and gentleness. It takes a lot of strength to be kind and gentle. More than to lift heavy things, etc. If they are kind and gentle people are drawn to them and they usually have a servant’s heart. Sense of humor. Not a jokester, but can laugh at oneself and situations. For me I am a caring, fun loving person. I give my heart and soul to whatever I do. I love to help/serve and see another be the best version of themselves. If I can help, I will and get joy as I see other succeed. |
| Other than your parents, who has been the most influential person in your life and how? | A friend I call my spiritual father. I met him when I was in my 20’s and he taught me so much about the Lord and how to live by faith and trust God. That God is faithful. His favorite verse Eph. 3:20 soon became one of mine. |
| What contributed to your previous relationship/marriage ending? | An abusive relationship that when I fled to protect myself and my children ended up with his infidelity. Which was what broke the relationship. |
| How long have you been on your own since and what did you to do get through it? | Since 2007 and divorced since 2009. I had an amazing couple that walked this with me. They took me in, fed me, my kids and gave me shelter when I needed it. I only got through with prayer, and with God intervening in each situation. |
| Favorite lines from movies, poems, songs, hymns or Scripture you would like to tell us about? | Eph. 3:20, Phil. 1:6 and Phil. 4:13 to start off. I have been enjoying the Revelation song by People and songs. I am a movie fan, but can’t recall any quotes right off the bat. |
| What type of work do/did you do? | Office/secretary/customer service |
| How long have you been/were you in that line of work? Do/you enjoy it? | 9 years. Mostly since my divorce and as a means to support my family as I had to do everything on my own, no help from ex. I love helping people and in customer service it doesn’t matter the product, if you can help someone how you want to be helped or treated then I have done my job. |
| Do you have any life-long goals? What are they? | I don’t know that I do. I would like to get married again, I believe in marriage. I believe God had a good idea and I believe that it works. Mine didn’t but I have been blessed to see many other examples and see God’s love in it an would like another chance to experience it for myself. |
| Where were you born and where have you traveled? | I was born in the city of Chicago. I have been many place. I love travelling. I loved being a missionary. Canada, England, Scotland, Wales, Ireland, Belgium, Holland, Germany, Switzerland, Luxemburg, France, Greece, Yugoslavia, India, Italy |
| How do you enjoy your leisure time? What do you do for recreation? | I like to entertain. I love to cook and have friends over for food and fun as I call it. Table games, cards, just hanging together enjoy each other’s company. I also love movies. I love quiet night/rainy days to get under the covers and watch a movie. I do like walking as well. Not hiking or strenuous, but leisure walk. And travelling Love to travel and see new places. I am a tourist and love it. |
| About Me | I think the questions answered most of who I am. I love Jesus and want to serve Him all my days. And want to share that with a special someone. |
| My Interests | Travel, the Bible, cooking, baseball |