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First Name

Becca

Username

beccamccleary

Nickname

beccamccleary

Gender

Female

Location

Raleigh, NC, USA

Country

United State

State

North Crolina

City

Raleigh

Zip

27615

Looking for

Marriage Minded

Marital Status

Single – Never Married

Christian Affiliation

Calvinistic, Christian Reformed Church (CRC), Reformed Baptist

Race

Caucasian

Height

5' 8"

Build

Overweight

Eye Color

Hazel

Hair Color

Brown

College /University

The College at Southeastern (SEBTS)

Graduation Year

Select

Level of education

High School

Employment

Full Time

Occupation

Receptionist

Company

Johnson Lexus

Seeking Ethnicity (those I am willing to date)

Caucasian

My ideal place to live

In the suburbs

My view on smoking

I am a non-smoker

My view on drinking

I don't drink, but don't mind others drinking in moderation

On the subject of children

I would like to have children one day

Tell us about your family. How do you feel about relocating?

Parents divorced when I was 10. I am the youngest of 3 girls.

I feel like a flamingo in a flock of pigeons when it comes to my family overall and Christianity. It’s tough to speak to them about the Gospel, because their doctrine can be skewed.

How old were you when you were drawn to Christ and how is your Christian walk these days?

I was drawn to Christ at a young age, since I grew up in the church. I have grown exponentially over the past years, since being at seminary. Any good I do in my Christian walk is all due to God and his grace upon me. I thank God that his love for me is not dependent upon my performance.

How have the Doctrines of Grace changed or affected your life?

It has changed the way I think about myself and others. It has made me more secure in my salvation knowing that God is sovereign over it, and my life as a whole.

Do you have a "Quiet Time?" What are you studying?

I do, I cannot have a semi-good day if I am not in the word. I am currently going through multiple things. Romans study by RC Sproul, Ephesians book study through my school, Corinthians study. And I also want to start a deep dive in the Pentateuch soon.

Are you content being single? Why? If not, why?

I want to be truly content in the Lord, but I do have a strong desire to be married. But I constantly have to remind myself that God is greater than anything, any person, any feeling or any experience.

What are four qualities your friends would attribute to you?

Loyal, kind, caring, sarcastic

What are three things you are most thankful for?

Other than your classic Christian answers…My Bible (truly), people that love me, food on the table, the ability to read.

Describe the character and personality traits you enjoy in another person? What are yours?

I love a good sense of humor in another person. My favorite show is The Office, so that should tell you what my kind of humor is. I also like a person that is spontaneous and silly. When I get close to someone, my silly and sometimes obnoxious side can come out, and I’d like someone who can accept me in that way, and love me regardless.

 

One of mine is loyalty and an abundance of love to give. When I love someone, I REALLY love them. I have been trying to see the best in people, and not be quick to judge. I am also super sensitive sometimes, I am definitely not stone cold or emotion-less, quite the opposite actually, and one of the implications of that is fear of man, which I am working through with my counselor; and another is trying to please people too much. I don’t want anyone to dislike me because of who I am. (I am totally fine with someone not liking me bc of my proclamation of the gospel). Another thing about me that I would really prefer in a partner is the love of singing (preferably someone who CAN sing so they can harmonize with me in the car or whatever). If you play guitar, piano or any other instrument, that wouId be a big bonus. love to sing–seriously, and silly-sing and just have fun. I try to not care what other people think in terms of when I’m just trying to have fun. I also love cats, and I’d like someone who is comfortable around cats and will embrace and love the cats in my family. (I like dogs too, but i am more of a cat person. Although I love my sisters dog and the dog loves me too so haha)

 

So I am looking for someone who is gentle, humble, loving, sweet, wanting to have fun, spontaneous, musically inclined, loves animals.

What contributed to your previous relationship/marriage ending?

Very very complicated. Long story short: sin. I was engaged to him, and he called it off. I also met him unintentionally on a Christian non-dating forum called Servant for Christ.

How long have you been on your own since and what did you to do get through it?

I am not on my own, slowly but surely. I live with my grandmother right now.

Favorite lines from movies, poems, songs, hymns or Scripture you would like to tell us about?

My favorite chapter is Psalm 51, specifically verse 10. I pray that verse most often.

What type of work do/did you do?

I am a receptionist at a car dealership.

How long have you been/were you in that line of work? Do/you enjoy it?

Been there since October 2019 and I enjoy it for the most part

Do you have any life-long goals? What are they?

My life-long goal is to be a mother and raise them to love Christ.

Where were you born and where have you traveled?

Born and raised in Raleigh North Carolina.

How do you enjoy your leisure time? What do you do for recreation?

Oh yes. I like to watch Netflix (most likely The Office). Or study/read Scripture.

Is there anything that the questionnaire didn’t cover?

I love cats, and I really want to have my own cat some day (update: I have one now lol)

About Me

If you wanna talk to me, you can add me on Facebook and send me a DM

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