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First Name

Tom

Username

Athomas

Nickname

Athomas

Gender

Male

Location

Lincoln, NE, USA

Country

United State

State

Nebraska

City

lincoln

Zip

68504

Looking for

Female, Potential Courtship, A Date with Serious Intentions, Marriage Minded

Marital Status

Single – Never Married

Christian Affiliation

Southern Baptist

Race

Caucasian

Height

5' 10"

Build

Skinny

Eye Color

Green

Hair Color

Blonde

College /University

University of Nebraska at Kearney for my masters and educational specialist.

Graduation Year

2020

Level of education

Masters +

Employment

Full Time

Occupation

School Psychologist

Company

Public School System

Seeking Ethnicity (those I am willing to date)

Any

My ideal place to live

In a space station

My view on smoking

I am a non-smoker

My view on drinking

I rarely drink

On the subject of children

I would like to have children one day

Tell us about your family. How do you feel about relocating?

I am incredibly close with my family and would not want to relocate unless it was God’s Providence and I could be able to visit my family somewhat often.

How old were you when you were drawn to Christ and how is your Christian walk these days?

I was raised in a Christian household with nightly Bible studies. The Lord kept me close in my teens year. My early twenties I had times of trial and was not as close to God as I should have been. I have learned from my trials and I am seeking the Lord and being sanctified. I am so grateful for such a wonderful savior who is strong when I am weak.

How have the Doctrines of Grace changed or affected your life?

I was raised in these ideas and I think they influence the essential of what I think about life and His will. I think it has shown me true humility, love, and influences my concepts on relationships of all types.

Do you have a "Quiet Time?" What are you studying?

I do have a quiet time dedicated to prayer and studying the Bible. I am reading and studying Genesis right now.

Who is your favorite Biblical Character and why?

Tough question, but Jesus of course, none are comparable. Though, I always identify with David, flawed but beloved. He experienced all the seasons with honesty represented by the Psalms. I love how God could choose someone undesired and raise them up to royalty. It has shown me that God loves us through it all and chose the undesired like me to be his child. It is a beautiful reminder.

Are you content being single? Why? If not, why?

I believe God placed in my heart the desire for a wife and to someday have children. I have learned to enjoy myself, but that longing has not changed.

What are four qualities your friends would attribute to you?

Trustworthy, a good listener, analytical, and kind.

What are three things you are most thankful for?

God’s grace, mercy, His unfathomable intelligence, His undeniable love, and the blessing He has given me in my family and friends. I am undeserving of all His wonder, but His blessings overflow!

Describe the character and personality traits you enjoy in another person? What are yours?

Someone trustworthy, honest, kind, hardworking, responsible, good with finances, deep thinker, has humor, and caring.

I feel like I try and have all of these. I am a curious person who loves to learn. I am adventurous and love to travel. I am people oriented and find more pleasure in experiences rather than things. I am driven.

Other than your parents, who has been the most influential person in your life and how?

My siblings, I have 4 sisters and they have equally taught me so much about life. We live through each others experiences, trials, and struggles. They encourage me, show me unconditional love, loyalty, friendship, and challenge me to grow. If I have any success I owe it to God first and foremost, and then to my family.

What contributed to your previous relationship/marriage ending?

My last relationship I briefly dated another reformed believer, but we mutually decided that we were not compatible for each other. No hard feelings just differences in personalities.

How long have you been on your own since and what did you to do get through it?

That was 6 months ago. I was steadfast in God’s word, stayed in prayer, continued meeting with my pastor and men’s group, and did more volunteering at my church.

Favorite lines from movies, poems, songs, hymns or Scripture you would like to tell us about?

To be completely honest I have a terrible memory and I have difficulty memorizing much. Though I have always been fond of  1 John 4:9-11. 9. This is how God showed His love among us: He sent His one and only Son into the world that we might live through Him. 10. This is love: not that we loved God, but that He loved us and sent His Son as an atoning sacrifice for our sins. 11. Dear Friends, since God so loved us, we also ought to love one another.

What type of work do/did you do?

I am a school psychologist. I work at a middle school doing evaluations to see if children qualify for special education and helping other students succeed in school.

How long have you been/were you in that line of work? Do/you enjoy it?

It is my second year. God has guided me to a wonderful career field and I do enjoy it.

Do you have any life-long goals? What are they?

I would like to be a husband and a father. I enjoy writing as well and want to keep writing and maybe get published someday. I am a curious person and I enjoy trying lots of different hobbies. I am a life long learner.

Where were you born and where have you traveled?

I was born in Omaha, NE. I have traveled to a lot of different countries. Italy, Switzerland, France, U.K., Japan, China, Russia, Australia, Peru, Chile, Argentina, Brazil, South Africa, Nambia, Botswana, Zambia, India, Nepal, Thailand,  Cambodia, and New Zealand. I might be skipping a couple, but that is the just of it. I want to travel some more, I would love to see more. It has been one of the greatest joys of my life.

How do you enjoy your leisure time? What do you do for recreation?

I love spending time with friends and family,  working out, reading, watching movies, and writing.

Is there anything that the questionnaire didn’t cover?

Thanks for taking the time to read through all of this and excuse my poor grammar, haha!

About Me

Hi, my name is Tom! I am interested in finding someone with my same beliefs and values. I care very much about my friends and family.

My Interests

Movies, writing, working out, and spending time with family and friends.

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