God is the best Father!
Marriage Minded, A Date with Serious Intentions, Potential Courtship
Single - Never Married
Level of education:
My ideal place to live:
My view on smoking:
I am a non-smoker
My view on drinking:
On the subject of children:
I would like to have children one day
Tell us about your family. How do you feel about relocating?:
I’m the oldest of 4. Most of my immediate family is in CA. It’s hard to see myself relocating right now but I’m willing to have a conversation about it. I’m reluctant mainly for two reasons. (1)- I have a good job with great security and opportunities in the area (2)- I have a desire to one day be an elder/pastor at my local church; so relocating makes the former difficult to obtain somewhere else, and the latter impossible to fulfill.
How old were you when you were drawn to Christ and how is your Christian walk these days?:
I was drawn to Christ around the age of 7. My life & walk with Him have had it's ups and downs since then, but I've steadily grown in the Lord and the past few years have been the strongest of my Christian walk.
Do you have a "Quiet Time?" What are you studying?:
Yes, I’m currently going through the book of Psalms.
Who is your favorite Biblical Character and why?:
There are many great characters in the Bible, but my favorite would have to be Paul and for a few key reasons. His conversion- That he was persecuting the children of God and yet was blinded by his zeal and sinful heart thinking that he was doing the work of God. It’s amazing to see how bold and obedient he was following his vision of the risen Lord. His mind- He was certainly a brilliant man and I love how he formulates many of his teachings in a structured and logical form (the book of Romans being the greatest example). He clearly was a great writer and thinker and I’m thankful that God used someone like him to write as many letters as he did. They’ve been a treasure to read and learn from in God’s Word. His heart- In the logic and great doctrinal instruction taught throughout his letters, it might be hard to miss his passion and heart for those he wrote to. I think the best examples for this are 2 Corinthians, Philippians, Philemon and 1/2 Timothy (especially when reading each one in one sitting). I love the father/son relationship he had with Timothy and his affection for him as partner in the gospel and a true son in the common faith. I especially like 2 Corinthians because you can see Paul’s heart torn for them, he truly loved them. He seemed to go back and forth between praise, correction and encouragement but you just sense his passion for their growth in the Lord (whether it caused him joy or frustration).
Are you content being single? Why? If not, why?:
Yes and no. The Lord has decreed what will happen in my life- He is good and just. I am called to love and obey Him through any circumstance; to trust that He is not only in control but is using all things for good in my life. I have a healthy and godly desire to be married and have a family someday. I believe that I am ready to be married and trying to pursue that desire by being here.Proverbs 16:9 “A person’s heart plans his way, but the LORD determines his steps. ”Proverbs 19:21 “Many plans are in a person’s heart, but the LORD’S decree will prevail.”
What are four qualities your friends would attribute to you?:
I asked over a dozen people and the most common answers were Intelligent, Kind, Dedicated & Passionate.
What are three things you are most thankful for?:
Other than the obvious of Christ and salvation in Him; the other three would be: (1)- The opportunity and privilege to serve God and be useful for His kingdom (2)- The Church and fellowship among brothers and sisters in the Lord (few things in this world, if any, bring me such great joy as fellowship with the Body of Christ). (3)- God’s Word and all the wonderful teachings it contains.
Describe the character and personality traits you enjoy in another person? What are yours?:
Quite simply, I really enjoy people I can connect with intellectually, emotionally and spiritually.
Other than your parents, who has been the most influential person in your life and how?:
I have two in mind that warrant an answer- Jeremy & Dave. Jeremy and I met first week in college (pretty neat story actually if you’re curious) and we instantly became close friends. He’s been my best friend ever since and we have been a source of edification, encouragement, correction and true brotherly affection to each other for over 11 years now. I’ve known Dave since I left college (~3.5 years) and in many ways (outside of Christ obviously), he has been the most important person in my life. There is so much to be said (and I’d love to share more so feel free to ask) but I’ll just give a quick summary here: I met him the first day I attended my church and he (and his wife) were the leaders of the young professionals group that I joined at the time and now help lead. He is an elder at my church and he has fulfilled that role in my life personally as he has shepherd and discipled me immediately after I joined the church. I’ve been blessed to have many mature & older godly men from church mentor me and be a “Paul” to me, but Dave has by far been the greatest influence. When I’ve needed him the most, he’s been a father, friend, mentor and true brother in Christ.
What contributed to your previous relationship/marriage ending?:
How long have you been on your own since and what did you to do get through it?:
Favorite lines from movies, poems, songs, hymns or Scripture you would like to tell us about?:
See "About Me"
What type of work do/did you do?:
I’m a structural analyst for an Aerospace company.
How long have you been/were you in that line of work? Do/you enjoy it?:
3.5 years. I have been blessed to have this job as it mirrors exactly what I loved learning in college and has great stability/benefits. That said, I don't see myself being an engineer much longer as I want to pursue a career in ministry.
Do you have any life-long goals? What are they?:
See "About Me"
Where were you born and where have you traveled?:
I was born in Northern CA and have lived in CA for practically my entire life. I’ve been to Florida, Oklahoma, Wyoming, Colorado, Montana, Nevada and Idaho but have never left the country.
How do you enjoy your leisure time? What do you do for recreation?:
Will answer soon (5/21)
Is there anything that the questionnaire didn’t cover?:
Will answer soon (5/21)
FAVORITE LINES, SONGS, HYMMS & SCRIPTURE
“O to grace how great a debtor, daily I’m constrained to be, let thy goodness, like a fetter, bind my wondering heart to thee” – Come thou fount of every blessing.
“Behold the man upon his cross, my sin upon his shoulders, ashamed I hear my mocking voice, called out among the scoffers. It was my sin that held him there, until it was accomplished, his dying breath has brought me life, I know that it is finished”
– How deep the Father’s love
Be thou my vision, In Christ alone, A mighty fortress, At your name, Praise Adonai, Come thou fount of every blessing, Shout to the Lord, How great thou art, Nothing but the blood of Jesus, How deep the Father’s love, It is well with my soul, I see the Lord, Refiner’s fire….and many more!
I really like classical, some of my favorites are Danse Macabre, Capriccio Italien, Summer/four seasons, Rachmaninov Piano Concerto No 1&2.
I enjoy pretty much enjoy anything from Liszt, especially-
Hungarian Rhapsodies 2/4/6/9
Scripture: There are so many, but I'll name some of my favorite chapters
Several in the Psalms & Proverbs
Isaiah 42, 43, 45, 50, 52, 53
Daniel 9, 10
Joel 1, 2
John 6, 10, 17
Romans 5, 6, 8, 12
1 Cor. 1, 5, 6, 12-14
2 Cor. 5-9
Ephesians 1 ,3, 5
Philippians 1, 3
Colossians 1, 2, 3
2 Thess. 2
Titus (whole book)
Hebrews 1, 2, 4, 5, 6, 9, 10
1 Peter 1, 2
2 Peter (whole book)
Revelation 1, 2, 3, 12
LIFE LONG GOALS
Yes! Several (not in any particular order)
1. To be a godly husband & father. To (in the most possible way as a fallen man) love my wife as Christ has/does love His Bride; and to faithfully lead my family in the way of the Lord.
2. To do full-time work for the Lord through ministry (either what He leads me to and/or fulfill a few ministry ideas that I want to pursue if/when the doors open).
3. I want to go to seminary to learn the Biblical languages and sharpen my understanding of God’s Word and how to be a more effective teacher/preacher.
4. I have several writing/Bible study projects and book ideas that I want to complete. I’m starting to pick some of them up- just need to have endurance to see them through.
5. To daily grow in the grace and knowledge of Christ as He continues to make me more like Him
6. To serve the Lord and as Paul says in Phil. 1:27 “Just one thing: As citizens of heaven, live your life worthy of the gospel of Christ”
7. To continue in my passion for music and ultimately use drumming to glorify God.
Will answer soon (5/21)